touching

People often misunderstand me especially when it involves affectionate touching. Typically, I am mostly affectionate with people I think are safe. I can be physically friendly with gay men as I KNOW that nothing is ever going to cross a line sexually. I can let my guard down. People also misunderstand sexiness and sexual attraction. I can observe that someone is very sexually attractive without wanting to touch him/her. Maybe I do not think like other people do.