blindfolds

Even when I was young, I often was fascinated by the image of someone blindfolded. The scarf/material folded neatly or not, cushioned against the eyes, and the wearer relinquishing control to another.

As an adolescent, I was enamored by one of the Whitesnake videos. My sister accused me of being a lesbian, but I never admitted it was the blindfold that had me enthralled. I guess I thought it less perverse to want women rather than admit a blindfold fetish.

As an adult, I am completely taken by the image of a man blindfolded and ready for me. It has never happened except in the many images and scenarios in my mind. I think it has to do with vulnerability and trust issues. If a man is blindfolded, it allows me to relax and not concentrate on my fears about my body image. It gives me the control to act out my fantasy without worrying about machismo actions on the part of my lover. I have no problem stating what it is I want or need, but I am not always heard. This happens in my daily life, as well. I wouldn't mind wearing the blindfold, either. It would be nice to have that kind of trust and belief in another, for once.